Don't Neglect the Real POWER in U!

WHY ARE “you”  NOT A PERSON OF INFLUENCE?

   Ever thought why some people exercise more power and influence than you do. Some of them are literally illiterate, ugly, short and physically challenged! On the other hand, you are a man of knowledge, hard-worker, deep thinker, good looking and without any physical limitation. Then, why are you forced to live a life that you don’t deserve? Moreover, you have to struggle to maintain your status quo. You live under the constant fear of losing your job and social security. You think that one day your spouse or children will reject you. You have lesser resources and greater targets. Nevertheless, your plight only worsens day by day.


Important Question: Is this slavery self-imposed or forced by some other branch of your society? In this series we are going to analyse, discuss and discover the root cause.

   First, a general list of some basic Qualities or Distinctions observed in the Powerful-

* They are not over-conscious and self-obsessed. They are not formal. These highly informal people react naturally. They don’t tolerate something they don’t like in order to be called well-cultured. Most important, they are not shy.

*  They don’t think too much. They have faith in whatever they do. They are not the ideal people. They behave and live normally. They don’t imitate the movie stars or the rich. They are practical and pragmatic.

* They are liked by people. It doesn't mean that they are good looking or full of knowledge. Whatever be the case, they gel well with everyone. The underlying idea is people are comfortable in their company.

* They get their work done by hook or by crook. They have no ego problem. They are not dogmatic. Be it an enemy or a friend, these people use everybody for their purpose. In practice, they have neither an enemy nor a friend.

* Although they know that they belong to the weirdest of the lot, yet they give their best presentation. These poor or ugly persons are totally immune to inferiority complex. They very well understand the duality of this fake and pompous world.

* When in crisis, they would lick your feet. However, they would forget your favours and don’t hesitate to cut your feet when you are a hindrance to them. How shameless and practical!!! That’s why this clever breed leads and we look at them in awe.

   Charles Darwin was absolutely right when he presented the theory: "Survival of the Fittest". A new breed of people has come in existence and it has been increasing geometrically.What is this new breed? They are not new. They have been in existence before the mankind controlled the planet. They possess the same set of biological properties that we have; the only difference is the application of tactics and diplomacy in every field. On the other hand, we believe that politics is confined to our politicians and diplomats! We believe that tactics and strategy are the arrows that suit only the quiver of warring armies.

   What is our ideology? We believe that one who is rich or powerful is so because of his hardwork and goodness! Is it so? How long will you keep yourself in darkness? We believe that "one" day we shall show the world that we are the best. "One Day" the world will recognize our worth. "One Day" there will be a shower of money and roses on us. However, nobody knows when that "One Day" would come. Your father and grandfather died waiting for that "One Day". Now, you have lined-up for the same. Wake up! Wake up! Wake up!

   

   Therefore, friends be practical. It is time for retrospection. Don't be the first to run yourself down. Start accepting and respecting yourself. Show your real face and style to the world. Unmask yourself of formality and idealism. Be informal. React. Don't Tolerate. They don’t care for you. Don't think what others think about you. What they think is not your business. In order to be happy, you must strive to make yourself happy. Don't wait for the right time or the right set of people who will recognize your worth and guide you to the right path. However, it doesn't mean to be violent or indecent. The underlying idea is to do as the Romans do when you are in Rome. Moreover, there should be no self-imposed restrictions that are fake, hollow or baseless. Be practical. Be yourself. You are Unique. You should not imitate others. Even after copying others nothing happened. You know the results. Thus, why not try something else? Begin with the most unique thing you know: YOU...

To be continued…