Y R U not a Person of "INFLUENCE"?

Believe It Or Not

   The Influencers are really smart and clever. They know how to play and when to stop. Before we move further, note that “Nothing is Easy and Nothing is Impossible.” Broadly speaking, this world is based on DUALITY. There are two rules: One – It is written, clear, always preached but never practised (however, only novice and idealistic people try to follow it all their life). Two – This “Golden Rule” is unwritten, unclear but always practised by the cunny and the astute. So, come out of your Ivory Tower and face the music! Now, consider some of the “Golden Rules” –

* They pretend to believe in equality. They always preach that they have immense faith in humanity. However, in practice, they always do the opposite.

* They are not the best persons or superman. They may not be handsome/beautiful/intelligent/hard working. Nevertheless, they consider themselves to the best and consequently they lead. On the other hand, you are a gifted personality. You have many qualities. Still you are waiting for the right time or the day when you will achieve perfection. (God only knows when that day or time will come! Wake up. Don’t punish or overburden yourself. You are born to have what you deserve. Nobody can stop you.)

* People are comfortable with them. They also appear to be comfortable with people. They don't ignore people. (They don’t boast of their knowledge. They don’t discriminate. All they want is maximum influence by hook or by crook.) They know how to gel well with people.

*  They are shameless creatures. Today they cry and tomorrow they laugh wildly! They openly do what they preached to be a sin. They dominate by false statements. They don't lose heart after a loss and don't become proudy after a minor victory. WHEN IN ROME, THEY DO AS THE ROMANS DO.

* They don’t need Spoon Feeding. They don't talk or explain too much. They are not embroiled in the past. They start from wherever they are. They are actually not great; they don't tolerate! They have solved themselves and are ready to solve (use) others. They are satisfied and proud of whatever they have or know.

* They are not philanthropists. First, they are concerned about themselves. Their goals are crystal clear. They are not shy or ashamed of their heinous deeds or comments. (But you will punish yourself for minor things till death!) They are involved and busy with their circle (famous/notorious/small/big). They pretend to be an open book.

* They react. They don’t tolerate in order to be tagged as good or ideal. They believe in simplicity. They tell, reply or propose. They don't complicate things. They don't take things too seriously. Be it an honour or an insult, they keep moving. What they preach and what they practise are two different things.

Now Ask Yourself

Why should they be allowed to exercise more influence than you? How can they do it? Why can’t you? What is Stopping You?

Remember

* If you want to be alive, stop being SHY and IDEAL. STOP THINKING TOO MUCH.

* Focus and rely on your strengths to exercise the maximum possible influence.

* Don't let your weakness reduce your Influence. Check your Weakness.

People want the "Surface" to be Shiny and Smooth, but they don't MIND even if the core is Marshy and Mucky.

To Illustrate –

You should accept bribes in order to please your family and relatives. Contrarily, if you are caught, the same bunch of people will reject you without any hesitation. They would forget all your favours and risks. All they know is that you are no more useful and have been accused of culpable crime.
On the other hand, even if you are a criminal and have been acquitted (by hook or by crook), you would be revered and flanked by fans. This is the duality of the society!

Do you think an ideal person can survive in this quagmire? All you need is a set of tactics and a self-designed diplomacy to counter these challenges.