Friends and Enemies are not a set of people who have a fixed set of notions towards you. If you think a friend always helps and an enemy always hurts, you are wrong. In the broader sense, Friends or Enemies don't exist. They are literary creatures. In reality, we are surrounded by a group of people and have to interact with them. Those who exhibit a positive response to our stimulus are called friends. That is why we have domesticated the dog and conferred the title "Man's Best Friend" on it. On the other hand, those who respond negatively are categorised under the vertical "Enemies". To make it more clear, take the example of snakes. A snake always bites irrespective of your love or care. [This is the way Snakes have been engineered to respond to almost everything.] Hence, we have been advised to be wary of this creature.
The simple fact is that people are driven by the circumstances and conditions they are subjected to. The bottomline is the "Survival Instinct". Nothing is unchangeable here. Had it been the case, there would have been no instances where "best-friends" turned into "blood-thirsty enemies" and vice-versa. Therefore, don't judge people. Stop classifying them as Enemies or Friends. Interestingly, you need not take pain to analyse people. Just be alert and cautious: Time will do the needful for you! Soon you will be able to tell the right from the wrong and filter out some really "true" people.
Remember: This world needs all sorts of people for its sound functioning. All you need to do is to be the Best you can be to Yourself and to Others, too. By the way, A friend in need is a Friend indeed.
The simple fact is that people are driven by the circumstances and conditions they are subjected to. The bottomline is the "Survival Instinct". Nothing is unchangeable here. Had it been the case, there would have been no instances where "best-friends" turned into "blood-thirsty enemies" and vice-versa. Therefore, don't judge people. Stop classifying them as Enemies or Friends. Interestingly, you need not take pain to analyse people. Just be alert and cautious: Time will do the needful for you! Soon you will be able to tell the right from the wrong and filter out some really "true" people.
Remember: This world needs all sorts of people for its sound functioning. All you need to do is to be the Best you can be to Yourself and to Others, too. By the way, A friend in need is a Friend indeed.
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