Problem: You have always been a 'Superstar', but recently some conditions beyond your control and comprehension have jeopardised Your Life. Now, you are subjected to 'criticism' from all directions and being 'targeted' by everybody. Should you give in to this 'pressure', succumb to the 'societal-confrontation' and start leading a 'Humiliated' life?
Fact: The people around you want you to be 'like' them. That is to say the status should be almost equal. The moment you do something extra-ordinary or different, you estrange yourself from the crowd. Unknowingly, you make the crowd feel 'inferior' and it instantly develops 'disguised hostility' towards you. Moreover, they want to be square with you. In fact, they are afraid of your 'indomitable spirit'. They have seen you roar like a lion and they know that you are born to make it big in life. When you are shattered like a transparent glass because of some unavoidable circumstances, all you need is a 'true friend' who would help you recover your lost confidence and integrity. Unfortunately, the people surrounding you start acting like a pack of wolves and 'attack' you so that you can be moulded into a 'second-class' citizen like them. This is what they call 'Normal'.
These relatives or friends or better described as 'enemies in disguise' want you to feel 'inferior and be under-confident' like they do. The aim is to strip you of your unshakeable courage and everlasting enthusiasm. What you feel is 'sympathy' is actually 'constant humiliation' cunningly covered with seemingly sweet words. These 'immoral hunters' want you to be ashamed of committing a blunder'. The moment you become like them, that is, 'Normal'; you are accepted by and inducted into the group. However, what you don't realise that you have been robbed of your 'originality' and 'real-wisdom'. In the long run, you become a 'social object' and unconditionally conform to 'societal-confrontation' in order to lead a 'hassle-free' life. This is how our society crushes or modifies every new voice that attempts to find room for free expression of the self.
Solution: Following are a set of suggestions that you would find really useful:
P.S.: Most of the kidnappings are conspired by 'Close-Relatives' and 'Best-Friends'. If you doubt this, please check with the Crime Records Department of your country.
Fact: The people around you want you to be 'like' them. That is to say the status should be almost equal. The moment you do something extra-ordinary or different, you estrange yourself from the crowd. Unknowingly, you make the crowd feel 'inferior' and it instantly develops 'disguised hostility' towards you. Moreover, they want to be square with you. In fact, they are afraid of your 'indomitable spirit'. They have seen you roar like a lion and they know that you are born to make it big in life. When you are shattered like a transparent glass because of some unavoidable circumstances, all you need is a 'true friend' who would help you recover your lost confidence and integrity. Unfortunately, the people surrounding you start acting like a pack of wolves and 'attack' you so that you can be moulded into a 'second-class' citizen like them. This is what they call 'Normal'.
These relatives or friends or better described as 'enemies in disguise' want you to feel 'inferior and be under-confident' like they do. The aim is to strip you of your unshakeable courage and everlasting enthusiasm. What you feel is 'sympathy' is actually 'constant humiliation' cunningly covered with seemingly sweet words. These 'immoral hunters' want you to be ashamed of committing a blunder'. The moment you become like them, that is, 'Normal'; you are accepted by and inducted into the group. However, what you don't realise that you have been robbed of your 'originality' and 'real-wisdom'. In the long run, you become a 'social object' and unconditionally conform to 'societal-confrontation' in order to lead a 'hassle-free' life. This is how our society crushes or modifies every new voice that attempts to find room for free expression of the self.
Solution: Following are a set of suggestions that you would find really useful:
- Don't do what they (so-called relatives and friends) want you to do. Single out some persons who are genuine and time-tested. Listen to them, exchange feelings, but the final decision should be yours.
- Do what you can and always wanted to do. Never give up after early failures. In the long run, you will emerge victorious.
- Learn from your mistakes. Keep taking notes. Remember: You can learn things only by facing the world head-on!
- Don't respect those who insult you either directly or indirectly. Don't listen to them. Don't be the first person to run yourself down.
- Never try to 'impress' or 'convince' people in order to justify your ability or past decisions. The more you try to do so, the more questions are put to you. The end result is more doubt and reduced Respect+Acceptance.
- Always remember that a roaring lion can never be transformed into an obedient lamb.
P.S.: Most of the kidnappings are conspired by 'Close-Relatives' and 'Best-Friends'. If you doubt this, please check with the Crime Records Department of your country.
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