Nowadays, every Guru or Master talks about 'Self Control'. Self Control has become the essential ingredient of success. Preachers of Self Control believe that it is not inherent, but hard earned. It is all about Controlled Reaction and Mutual Respect. That is to say, you should not become angry at once and try to understand the other person's point of view. You should also attempt to put yourself in others' shoes before expressing your bottled up resentment. The bottomline is to be 'Co-operative' or 'Defensive' and neither 'Aggressive' nor 'Offensive' when something goes wrong. In a way, you should first try to 'understand' the root of the problem and thereafter make efforts to 'explain' the 'misunderstanding' to the 'unsatisfied' party. This whole process helps you buy some more time and your 'wise' words act as 'coolant' for the 'hot-headed' and 'over-heated' souls.
Broadly Speaking, the above mentioned phenomenon is actually a 'Psychological Tool' that can be used to your advantage. It's scrutiny reveals that it has two parts - First, the 'Internal Process' and the Second, the 'External Process'. The Internal one takes place in your mind and drives its External counterpart, which is all about the 'Right Choice of Words' and 'Appropriate Body Language'. Experts agree that it is very difficult to fake Body Language. Even if you succeed in 'betraying' it at 'Macro' level, you are somehow caught at the 'Micro' level. The fundamental principle of Body Language is 'What is in Is What is Out': If you are happy you greet others and vice versa. In short, the world around us neither knows nor wants to know 'What is going in your Mind and What things of Past have shaped your Present'. All that matters is your 'Final Presentation'. Therefore, if you could 'Control Your Mouth' and 'Mind Your Words', you would be in a better position. Start Now!!!
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